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“Try to See It My Way” – Rules, Boundaries, and Agreements

Older Posts About Kink

“Can’t Buy Me Love” – Let’s Talk About FinDommes!

Who’s Got Your Six? What Are Protectors?

The ABCs of Kink

“All That Showers Isn’t Gold” – Let’s Talk Watersports!

“It Goes to Eleven!” Your Kinky Playlist!

When Kink is Out of Sync – How to Handle Mismatched Kinks

“Grip it and Rip it!” – The Basics of Impact Play

“BDSM on a Budget” – How to DIY Your Toy Bag

Drop – The Hangover of BDSM

“What’s in a Name?” – All About Honorifics

Add Some Fudge Ripple to Your Vanilla – How to Introduce Kink to Your Partner

How to Ask Without Asking – What is Explicit Prior Permission?

We’re Going Bratfishing!!! – Adventures Undercover on FetLife

What’s in the Box??? – The Tools that BDSM has Given Me

The Bratty Cat’s Guide to… Bratting!!!

How to Train… Yourself? The Keys to Being a Good Submissive

Red Light, Green Light, Go! – How to Properly Negotiate a BDSM Scene

“I’m Just a Girl, Standing in Front of a Boy, Asking for Enthusiastic Positive Consent”

Men Need Not Apply – Women and Submission

Masculinity and Submission – How You Can Still Be On Top While Being the Bottom

RACK it up! I’ll take it!!!

The Author of All My Pain

Older Posts About Polyamory

“Revenge of the Chatbots!!!” What Does AI Know About Kink?

Make Yourself! – The Choice Vs Identity Question in Polyamory

Take a Ride on the Swing Set! – Your First Trip to a Swingers Club

Into the Wild! – Your First Polyam Meet & Greet

“Can’t Read My Poker Face!” – What is Cheating?

“You Gotta Shoot Your… Swipe?” – My Journey Through Online Dating Apps

Are You a Back-Seat Driver – The Relationship Autonomy Index

You, Me, and… A Couple of Other People – Mono-Polyam Relationships

“Two Bloggers Meet on the Internet” – The Struggles of Polyamory

“Just the Two of Us” – What is Couple’s Privilege?

“The King is Dead, Long live the Queen!” – Women, Feminism, and Polyamory

“When I dip, you dip, we dip!” – What is Compersion?

The ABCs of Polyamory

“HOW YOU DOIN’???” – How to Flirt Like a Polyam Person

You Say You Want A Revolution – Is Your Polyamory Political?

Do Androids Dream of Polyamorous Sheep: My Venture into AI Dating

New Relationship Energy – Where Everything’s Amazing and Nobody’s Happy!

The Wide World of ENM – Where Do You Fit In?

What Becomes of the Broken-Hearted – Break-ups in the Poly Community

Hierarchies – The Good, the Bad, and the Toxic

Unicorn Hunting 201

Poly Math: When You, Her, and Me Make Two and a Half