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“Try to See It My Way” – Rules, Boundaries, and Agreements
Older Posts About Kink
“Can’t Buy Me Love” – Let’s Talk About FinDommes!
Who’s Got Your Six? What Are Protectors?
The ABCs of Kink
“All That Showers Isn’t Gold” – Let’s Talk Watersports!
“It Goes to Eleven!” Your Kinky Playlist!
When Kink is Out of Sync – How to Handle Mismatched Kinks
“Grip it and Rip it!” – The Basics of Impact Play
“BDSM on a Budget” – How to DIY Your Toy Bag
Drop – The Hangover of BDSM
“What’s in a Name?” – All About Honorifics
Add Some Fudge Ripple to Your Vanilla – How to Introduce Kink to Your Partner
How to Ask Without Asking – What is Explicit Prior Permission?
We’re Going Bratfishing!!! – Adventures Undercover on FetLife
What’s in the Box??? – The Tools that BDSM has Given Me
The Bratty Cat’s Guide to… Bratting!!!
How to Train… Yourself? The Keys to Being a Good Submissive
Red Light, Green Light, Go! – How to Properly Negotiate a BDSM Scene
“I’m Just a Girl, Standing in Front of a Boy, Asking for Enthusiastic Positive Consent”
Men Need Not Apply – Women and Submission
Masculinity and Submission – How You Can Still Be On Top While Being the Bottom
RACK it up! I’ll take it!!!
The Author of All My Pain
Older Posts About Polyamory
“Revenge of the Chatbots!!!” What Does AI Know About Kink?
Make Yourself! – The Choice Vs Identity Question in Polyamory
Take a Ride on the Swing Set! – Your First Trip to a Swingers Club
Into the Wild! – Your First Polyam Meet & Greet
“Can’t Read My Poker Face!” – What is Cheating?
“You Gotta Shoot Your… Swipe?” – My Journey Through Online Dating Apps
Are You a Back-Seat Driver – The Relationship Autonomy Index
You, Me, and… A Couple of Other People – Mono-Polyam Relationships
“Two Bloggers Meet on the Internet” – The Struggles of Polyamory
“Just the Two of Us” – What is Couple’s Privilege?
“The King is Dead, Long live the Queen!” – Women, Feminism, and Polyamory
“When I dip, you dip, we dip!” – What is Compersion?
The ABCs of Polyamory
“HOW YOU DOIN’???” – How to Flirt Like a Polyam Person
You Say You Want A Revolution – Is Your Polyamory Political?
Do Androids Dream of Polyamorous Sheep: My Venture into AI Dating
New Relationship Energy – Where Everything’s Amazing and Nobody’s Happy!
The Wide World of ENM – Where Do You Fit In?
What Becomes of the Broken-Hearted – Break-ups in the Poly Community
Hierarchies – The Good, the Bad, and the Toxic
Unicorn Hunting 201
Poly Math: When You, Her, and Me Make Two and a Half