“You don’t own me Don’t try to change me in anyway You don’t own me Don’t tie me down ’cause I’d never stay” –Lesley Gore, “You Don’t Own Me” Hey, my kinky, polyam peeps! It’s my favorite time of year, the NFL playoffs! My friends always find it interesting that I’m such a sports nutContinue reading “The Bratty Cat’s Guide to… Bratting!”
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How to Train… Yourself? The Keys to Being a Good Submissive
“Trouble on my left, trouble on my right, I’ve been facing trouble almost all my life My sweet love, won’t you pull me through? Everywhere I look I catch a glimpse of you I said it was love and I did it for life, I didn’t do it for you Got so much to lose,Continue reading “How to Train… Yourself? The Keys to Being a Good Submissive”
Red Light, Green Light, Go! – How to Properly Negotiate a BDSM Scene
“No one really knows how the game is played The art of the trade, how the sausage is made We just assume that it happens But no one else is in the room where it happens” Lin-Manuel Miranda, “The Room Where it Happens” Hey, my kinky, poly peeps! Welcome back for another great post. OneContinue reading “Red Light, Green Light, Go! – How to Properly Negotiate a BDSM Scene”
News Update – November 28
Hey, my kinky, polyam peeps! I hope everyone got “stuffed” over your Turkey Day holiday! We’ve got two great news pieces for you today. First comes a topic that has been touched on time and time again and can never really be repeated enough. While BDSM is inherently rooted in control and can incorporate someContinue reading “News Update – November 28”
Men Need Not Apply – Women and Submission
“Well I guess what they say is true, I could never be the right kind of girl for you. I could never be your woman…” –White Town, “Your Woman” Hey, my kinky, polyam peeps! While Covid isn’t gone (and I get the feeling we’re still gonna be dealing with it for quite some time), itContinue reading “Men Need Not Apply – Women and Submission”
News Update – November 16
Hey, my kinky, poly peeps! Can you believe Thanksgiving is next week??? Before you know it Christmas we be on it’s way and I’ll need to start thinking of excuses not to go to holiday parties. While I work on that, here’s this week’s news updates: First up, from Refinery29 comes the importance of aftercare.Continue reading “News Update – November 16”
News Update – November 10
Hey, my kinky polyam peeps! Normally finding fresh news articles can be struggling because, let’s face it, the stuff we talk about isn’t exactly front page news. Still, I found two great beginner articles to wet your palette First up, let’s talk about Consensual Non-Consent. Now, CNC is ABSOLUTELY not Kink 101. As the articleContinue reading “News Update – November 10”
Masculinity and Submission – How You Can Still Be on Top While Being the Bottom
“I don’t know where the sunbeams end and the starlight begins, it’s all a mystery. And I don’t know how a man decides what’s right for his own life, it’s all a mystery. –The Flaming Lips, “Fight Test” When I look back at how my life has played out so far, I will tell youContinue reading “Masculinity and Submission – How You Can Still Be on Top While Being the Bottom”
News Update – November 3
Hello my kinky polyam peeps! I hope everyone had a fantastic SPOOOOOOOOKY HALOWEEEEEN!!! It’s officially November, which apparently means I’m not supposed to shave or jack-off for the next thirty days, so while I work on the next blog post discussing the insanity of these two traditions, here’s the news: First, we all remember whatContinue reading “News Update – November 3”
News Update – October 29
Hey, my kinky, polyam peeps! First off, happy National Cat Day! It’s a National Holiday here in the Bratty Cat household so let’s show our four-legged friends a little bit of love! We’ve got two great articles for you today, so let’s get moving: It’s a common misconception that if you’re in a relationship withContinue reading “News Update – October 29”