The Bratty Cat’s Guide to… Bratting!

“You don’t own me Don’t try to change me in anyway You don’t own me Don’t tie me down ’cause I’d never stay” –Lesley Gore, “You Don’t Own Me” Hey, my kinky, polyam peeps! It’s my favorite time of year, the NFL playoffs! My friends always find it interesting that I’m such a sports nutContinue reading “The Bratty Cat’s Guide to… Bratting!”

News Update -January 14

Hey, my kinky, poly peeps! Have we got some interesting articles for you! Without further adieu, let’s get right to it: First off, from, comes the secret behind “The Great Hornification of the Internet”. It’s no secret that two years of Covid has made all of us not just weary, but, shall we say…Continue reading “News Update -January 14”

How to Train… Yourself? The Keys to Being a Good Submissive

“Trouble on my left, trouble on my right, I’ve been facing trouble almost all my life My sweet love, won’t you pull me through? Everywhere I look I catch a glimpse of you I said it was love and I did it for life, I didn’t do it for you Got so much to lose,Continue reading “How to Train… Yourself? The Keys to Being a Good Submissive”

News Update – December 9

Hey, my kinky, poly peeps! Welcome back! Like me, the news cycle never stops, so let’s get right to it. First comes an article from Vice on how to discuss your kinks with your vanilla partner. If you’re someone who’s interested in kink, but doesn’t know just what to say, this article is for you.Continue reading “News Update – December 9”

“I’m Just a Girl, Standing in Front of a Boy, Asking for Enthusiastic Positive Consent”

“Words like violence, break the silence Come crashing in, into my little world Painful to me, pierce right through me Can’t you understand, oh, my little girl?” –Depeche Mode, “Enjoy the Silence” First off, let me apologize for the delay in this blog entry. After a great pre-Thanksgiving week, it’s been a rough couple daysContinue reading ““I’m Just a Girl, Standing in Front of a Boy, Asking for Enthusiastic Positive Consent””

News Update – November 28

Hey, my kinky, polyam peeps! I hope everyone got “stuffed” over your Turkey Day holiday! We’ve got two great news pieces for you today. First comes a topic that has been touched on time and time again and can never really be repeated enough. While BDSM is inherently rooted in control and can incorporate someContinue reading “News Update – November 28”

Men Need Not Apply – Women and Submission

“Well I guess what they say is true, I could never be the right kind of girl for you. I could never be your woman…” –White Town, “Your Woman” Hey, my kinky, polyam peeps! While Covid isn’t gone (and I get the feeling we’re still gonna be dealing with it for quite some time), itContinue reading “Men Need Not Apply – Women and Submission”

News Update – November 23

Hey my kinky, polyam peeps! First off: HAPPY POLYAMORY DAY!!! Yes, November 23 is Polyamory Day, so make sure to tell all your partner’s, metas, and metas too-many-times removed how important they are and what a valuable community we represent. In light of National Polyamory Day, our first article comes from INews from across theContinue reading “News Update – November 23”

News Update – November 16

Hey, my kinky, poly peeps! Can you believe Thanksgiving is next week??? Before you know it Christmas we be on it’s way and I’ll need to start thinking of excuses not to go to holiday parties. While I work on that, here’s this week’s news updates: First up, from Refinery29 comes the importance of aftercare.Continue reading “News Update – November 16”

News Update – November 10

Hey, my kinky polyam peeps! Normally finding fresh news articles can be struggling because, let’s face it, the stuff we talk about isn’t exactly front page news. Still, I found two great beginner articles to wet your palette First up, let’s talk about Consensual Non-Consent. Now, CNC is ABSOLUTELY not Kink 101. As the articleContinue reading “News Update – November 10”