The Bratty Cat’s Guide to… Bratting!

“You don’t own me Don’t try to change me in anyway You don’t own me Don’t tie me down ’cause I’d never stay” –Lesley Gore, “You Don’t Own Me” Hey, my kinky, polyam peeps! It’s my favorite time of year, the NFL playoffs! My friends always find it interesting that I’m such a sports nutContinue reading “The Bratty Cat’s Guide to… Bratting!”

How to Train… Yourself? The Keys to Being a Good Submissive

“Trouble on my left, trouble on my right, I’ve been facing trouble almost all my life My sweet love, won’t you pull me through? Everywhere I look I catch a glimpse of you I said it was love and I did it for life, I didn’t do it for you Got so much to lose,Continue reading “How to Train… Yourself? The Keys to Being a Good Submissive”

Red Light, Green Light, Go! – How to Properly Negotiate a BDSM Scene

“No one really knows how the game is played The art of the trade, how the sausage is made We just assume that it happens But no one else is in the room where it happens” Lin-Manuel Miranda, “The Room Where it Happens” Hey, my kinky, poly peeps! Welcome back for another great post. OneContinue reading “Red Light, Green Light, Go! – How to Properly Negotiate a BDSM Scene”

Men Need Not Apply – Women and Submission

“Well I guess what they say is true, I could never be the right kind of girl for you. I could never be your woman…” –White Town, “Your Woman” Hey, my kinky, polyam peeps! While Covid isn’t gone (and I get the feeling we’re still gonna be dealing with it for quite some time), itContinue reading “Men Need Not Apply – Women and Submission”

News Update – November 10

Hey, my kinky polyam peeps! Normally finding fresh news articles can be struggling because, let’s face it, the stuff we talk about isn’t exactly front page news. Still, I found two great beginner articles to wet your palette First up, let’s talk about Consensual Non-Consent. Now, CNC is ABSOLUTELY not Kink 101. As the articleContinue reading “News Update – November 10”

Masculinity and Submission – How You Can Still Be on Top While Being the Bottom

“I don’t know where the sunbeams end and the starlight begins, it’s all a mystery. And I don’t know how a man decides what’s right for his own life, it’s all a mystery. –The Flaming Lips, “Fight Test” When I look back at how my life has played out so far, I will tell youContinue reading “Masculinity and Submission – How You Can Still Be on Top While Being the Bottom”

RACK it up! I’ll take it!!!

“Sometimes I’m tired, sometimes I’m shot. Sometimes I don’t know how much more I got. Maybe I’m headed over the hill, maybe I’ve set myself up for the kill.” –Billy Joel, “I Go to Extremes” As someone with Autism, I tend to get fixated on a subject and will go on and on unless someoneContinue reading “RACK it up! I’ll take it!!!”

The Author of All My Pain

Now I know that there’s a time and there’s a place where I can choose to walk the fine line between self-control and self-abuse.” –Bare Naked Ladies, “Alcohol” Before I started this website, I used to write content for a kink-friendly podcast on YouTube (leaving that podcast was actually a huge factor in my decisionContinue reading “The Author of All My Pain”